Marilyn Barker

Death comes to us all. It is the time of death that is unknown. It is the people left behind who have to try to make sense of the loss. We do not know what happens after we die. We each have our own beliefs. It is the people left behind who I speak of now.  We all grieve differently. We all have to come to terms with our feelings for the one who has passed. Whether it be a family member, friend or a mere acquaintance. I find these feelings to be difficult to come to grips with. I have lost people through out my life. My Mother, Father, Grandmother, a Nephew, my Father in Law and a few friends. It doesn't get any easier. They are all a little different to understand, an illness that ends the suffering, a car accident, age itself, cancer, heart attacks,suicide and more. Just because you understand and can accept that death is part of life, does not make grief go away, it just makes it different.  They say grief comes in stages. I say grief is different for everyone.  I don't t

Marilyn Barker Hello Everyone I bet your wondering what I am offering and why I am different from all those other "motivational" "inspiring" guru's out there. Well let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am just like you, I grew up low to middle class and had struggles during my younger years. Just like millions of others I have had my ups and downs, I have battled abuse and medical conditions.  This makes me understand how it feels to be overwhelmed and I understand how hard it is to overcome. I am here to share my story and my insights with you.  If I can help one person see how awesome they really are than it worth it. I believe everyone has some Awesomeness in them. I believe you can achieve what you want out of life if you truly believe you can.  All that Inspirational mumbo jumbo is true. However, YOU have to believe it is true, you have to find it in yourself to truly believe and change your life. I am here to help you understand and find